Is it bad to look through your significant others phone?

In general, its a rule of thumb to never touch anyone else's property without their knowledge and permission. You would never want that done to you and that is an invasion of privacy.

The DLT

Now, with all the technical out of the way... This does draw a deeper questioning within me to ask, why do you have lack of trust for your partner? What are you desiring to look through their phone for? What are you hoping to find?

This shows that there is a lack of trust somewhere within the relationship and needs to be communicated between the two of you with adequate time and clear dialogue.

What are the facts without your emotions?

Lovingly communicate your thoughts and concerns and be prepared to receive what they say and not how - what they are saying is making you feel.

A quick, easy and painless way to know if an action you're about to take is the best step for yourself, is to ask yourself questions. "If I check his phone without his permission, what could this do?" "Would this feel good if it were done to me?"

There is nothing wrong with being curious about someone's behavior and why they do certain things, but the situation can go wrong when you act deceitfully in secrecy... after all, that may just be what you are snooping for and hoping to find.

-Truth